Ike Brings Angst, Perspective
September 23rd, 2008 by Jeff
“In calm seas, everyone’s a captain.”
Ernest Hemingway
No doubt about it . . . you have a story to tell about surviving the storm. You and others have been pushed to your limits physically, mentally, spiritually, financially, and relationally. The challenges have been immense. The odds are against you and you’ve been cornered; forced into a fight. Strong winds are blowing and there’s no stopping them. And no matter if you’ve trained or not, it’s time to respond.
Sound familiar?
I’m not talking about Hurricane Ike (necessarily). If you’ll pardon the linguistic trickery, a powerful storm is a perfect metaphor for the current condition of small business.
If you’re running a business, there are huge storms right now which need no description. Beyond the current economic conditions, I am sure you’ve experienced multiple confounding factors this year that have tainted your 2008 plan; the dreaded “torpedoes” that have knocked you and your ship well off course.
Do you race to course corrections? I do, too. But asking the right questions is a necessary precursor to implementing solutions. When considering either a business challenge or even a hurricane’s impact, a great question is, “What did this storm reveal about me?” Have you asked that one? I did (about Hurricane Ike); and the answers made me feel slightly vulnerable, slightly inefficient, and even a bit squirrelly. Yet, along with it, there was also a desire to respond with right action.
One main revelation was how weak I can be without creature comforts. Even amid very little actual danger, my ability to cope without electricity, internet, and ice was iffy at best. I was short on patience and grace; and harbored a tiny, irrational fear of the unknown. All in all, it was a struggle to keep my cool, both physically and emotionally. I’m thankful for my wife, who helped us to keep the ship in one piece amid 10 days of playing Nomadic Family.
As most displaced families probably experienced, we enjoyed the generous hospitality from family and friends during this time. My wife and I also enjoyed (at times) the ‘Time Warp’ dynamic of pretending we were in a pre-electricity era. Before leaving town for three days, we did the flashlight & candle thing as we huddled up at home with no power. The little ones loved playing flashlight tag and rediscovering exciting, ominous destinations like the pantry and the guest room closet. We had to get a bit creative at mealtime but we managed to survive with our gas grill & stovetop.
Also during this time we visited with our neighbors - the ones about whom we always say “we never spend enough time with each other!”. That night we spoke about everything A to Z, truly enjoying each other’s company. It’s not like we’d never visited with them; but it was notable that there were no distractions of TV, internet, or anything. All we had was each other, our hearts, thoughts, and words . . . and that was more than enough. Even the dim lighting added a special aura to the evening. Most of all, we were in no rush at all because we had nowhere to go and nowhere to be.
It was a perfect example of how we should always be when we say we are available: meaning, totally “there,” 100% focused, and completely relaxed.
There was something else that surfaced from this experience that was genuinely rewarding. In the past several weeks I’d been mentally parked on the subject of hurrying. This is a common issue for many of us who grew up with the token “American Microwave” mentality. Over and over I have been pondering ideas like: “Unless Godzilla is chasing you down the street, there is never any wisdom in hurrying.” This paid off handsomely while waiting in long lines, enduring jerks in traffic, and having to deal with 10 days of displacement from our home.
The focus on patience also paid off in dealing with business issues during the storm, because, quite simply, I was NOT ready for a 10 day interruption of phone and internet service. While I was eventually able to reconnect with clients after 2 days by cell phone, my entire workflow was instantly placed on the planet Zeebo as I struggled to maintain timelines. Even now . . still without electricity . . . I’m finding it difficult to get back into a groove. But, in addition to a moment-to-moment practicing of patience, a great reminder is to approach “behinded-ness” with simplicity: (1) figure out what needs to be done, and (2) put it into time (calendar). This very easy step helps to alleviate much of the stress that comes with such a situation.
Maybe the biggest gem that arose from the storm situation was a desire to continue training, both in a personal sense (spiritual growth, physical fitness, and serving key relationships) and on business items business (financial goals, leadership goals, consistency of service). If nothing else, the sheer, naked squirreliness pointed to the need to continue training, so that the NEXT TIME the storm comes, I’ll be ready; or at least more prepared to minimize damage. It’s just like a fighter training to block certain punches. Cuts and bruises are great motivators for training!
Someone once said, “Power is guarded by problems” Such a great tenet should be embraced everyday, and in particular remembered in times of struggle. Take it to heart and respond!
Timpanaro and Oberata Consulting are based in Kingwood, TX. Oberata is a consulting firm founded on the principles of strategy, process, and transformation, and utilizes the Total IntegrationTM system of business consulting. This system has helped business owners and professionals in the Fortune 100 with definitive, measurable operating strategies that produce unprecedented growth and profitability. For more information about Oberata Consulting call 281.570.4676 or visit www.Oberata.com
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